Impulse-spending is something that many people struggle with, often leading to feelings of guilt and regret. Impulse-spending involves money-spending activities that are not planned, and are usually driven by emotional or physical feelings (aka impulses) that are difficult to say no to. If this is something you’re familiar with, read the following tips.
1. Find out why you’re making unexpected purchases
Make note of how you’re feeling before you made a spontaneous purchase. Are you hungry, angry, lonely or tired? Did you complete a difficult task, and you’re craving a reward for your hard work? Do you feel you need to participate in fashion or technology trends? Do you know it’s an unnecessary purchase, but you just want it anyway?
2. Address the impulse
Once you have identified the real reason you feel like spending money spontaneously, you’ll find you won’t need to sacrifice your hard-earned money to calm your desires. There are other ways to meet any need or desire; they’re just not marketed as well as the goods sold in stores and restaurants. Here are some helpful tips:
- Try a savings app like QUBER to put money at arm’s length and building saving habits, rather than spending habits. The Momentum Savings Challenge will even reward you for doing so!
- If you’re hungry, try packing snacks in your bag, which often cost less per serving. And bring water to keep hydrated, so you’re less tempted to purchase drinks.
- If you’re stressed, you might talk to a counselor or self-soothe by napping or deep-breathing.
- If you just want to spend money, try calling a friend and talking through your desires with them.
- If you’re craving to be around people, look for community events where you can make friends, or reach out to friends and family.
- If you’re keeping up with trends, shift that energy by writing down things you’re grateful for.
3. Make it harder for yourself to spend money
Sometimes we spend without planning because spending is so easy. Try making your spending process more complicated, such as:
- Delete shopping or fast-food apps from your phone.
- Delete saved credit or debit card information from online shopping sites.
- Freeze your credit card in a container of water (if in-person shopping and spending is an issue for you).
4. Compare the benefit of spending to the benefit of saving that money for something else
Sometimes when a spending impulse lands, it takes multiple tactics to calm it down. If you still are tempted to buy something, perhaps figuring out the real cost of the item, such as:
- How long did you work to earn the money for the item?
- What are the disadvantages of buying the item?
- What is the meaning or value of this item for you?
- Are you spending money according to your true desires?
5. Plan to spend money on treats
Instead of cutting out treats from your spending plan, plan to make some purchases that you can enjoy by yourself or with friends and family. This will make it more rewarding to reduce your spending for long. And you’ll be happier while doing it. Also, if you practise resisting spending impulses, there might be more money for treats.
6. Pay attention to how you feel when you do spend money, impulsively or not
When you do spend money on something, expect full joy from the purchase! Either you’ll get more out of the things you buy, or if they don’t make you feel joyful, you might realize they’re not worth your money in the future. Then you can make better choices about where you spend money. Notice how much you use the clothes you buy, or how much you enjoy an impulsive snack.
It can be difficult to save money when you really want to buy something. But the more you practice resisting impulses, the easier it becomes. And you’ll be so thankful for the money you save, when you want or need it.
Spending less money on impulse purchases is a way to save up for what truly matters to you. Join the Momentum Savings Challenge to boost your savings, with cash incentives for participating! Find out more here.
Contributed by Ruth-Anne Klassen